A trail of broken relationships says nothing about the people you've been involved with as much as it speaks about you. Nothing is ever going to work out the way you intended. You have to allow for rainy days no matter how much you enjoy the sunshine. In life, there is a thing called 'balance'. It's the axis upon which life turns. The well balanced person does more than eat a nutritious breakfast. They can handle every curve and spin that life brings their way. You can read every book on being successful in life as your personal time will allow, but until you learn how to deal with the rain, your sunshiny days will be spent more in your recovery than in your discovery.